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Jewish Traditions

Jewish tradition offers a language and structure for navigating life, death, and remembrance. Through ritual, prayer, personalization, and communal responsibility, Judaism acknowledges grief, sorrow, and uncertainty not as something to be solved. But something to be carried and held—together.
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Rooted in Jewish Values & Traditions

Reverence for the
Natural World

Jewish wisdom teaches us to move through life with humility and reverence for the natural world (Shmirat Ha’adamah).

Guided by Mutual Responsibility

We act as stewards of the Jewish community’s sacred duty to care for one another (Arevut).

Committed to
Community

As the Bay Area’s Jewish nonprofit funeral home, we have a responsibility to serve and connect with the entire Jewish community (Kehillah).

Supporting healing & honoring memory

Jewish End-of-Life Rituals & Practices

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Mourning & Remembrance

How and Why We Light a Yahrzeit Candle

When we light a candle (Ner) on the annual anniversary of a person’s death (Yahrzeit), we reflect on our loved one’s memory and life.
Hand placing a small stone on top of a Jewish headstone, a traditional act of remembrance when visiting a grave
Mourning & Remembrance

Why We Place Stones on Graves

If you’ve visited a Jewish cemetery, you’ve likely seen small stones (Tz’ror) resting on a grave (Matzevah). Placing a stone can be a physical act of connection, linking us to the person who died and to the generations who have honored loved ones this way.

Search Hebrew Words

Shomer

Spiritual guard
שׁוֹמֵר / שׁוֹמֶרֶת — Spiritual watcher. Jewish tradition holds that the body should never be left alone between death and burial. A Shomer or Shomeret sits with the deceased, often reciting psalms.

Shura

Two Lines (the lines mourners walk between after burial)
שׁוּרָה — Two lines. After a burial, mourners pass between two lines formed by those who have come to support them. Shura offers the community's comfort in a tangible, structured way: mourners walk through a corridor of human presence and care. It is here that the traditional words of comfort are spoken.

Tachrichim

Traditional shrouds or burial cloth
תַּכְרִיכִים — Burial shrouds. Every Jew is buried in the same plain white linen tachrichim, regardless of wealth or status. This embodies one of Judaism's most powerful beliefs: in death, we are equal. The shrouds are intentionally simple — no pockets, no adornment, nothing carried from this life into the next.

Taharah

Ritual cleansing
טָהֳרָה — Ritual purification; cleansing of the body. Performed by the Chevra Kadisha, taharah is the careful, prayerful preparation of the deceased before burial. Water is poured over the body in a continuous flow while prayers are recited. It is a private, sacred act — the last kindness offered before a person is laid to rest.

Tsava’ah (pl. Tsava’ot)

Will (pl. Wills)
צַוָּאָה, צַוָּאוֹת — Ethical will; last testament. A tzava'ah is not primarily about possessions; it is a moral legacy: the values, wishes, and wisdom a person leaves for those they love. Jewish tradition encourages writing one at any age, as a way of living with intention and ensuring one's voice continues after death.